As much as we’ve been celebrating around here over the past few weeks, my little ones have been working through some pretty big changes in their little lives. While my daughter watched some of her best friends graduate from senior kindergarten and out of her little school, my son spent his last few days in class with his best buddies knowing that they’ll all be at different schools next year. My attempts to soothe his feelings with promises of play dates and shared after-school activities were met with comments like “play dates are not the same thing as being at school all day together”. As a mom, my heart felt as broken for my little ones as theirs felt broken for what they were experiencing.
All this change for them has also shown me just how fast they’re growing up and how my role is going to be changing too. Have you read that post that keeps circulating on Facebook? The one about how there’s always a last time for something as you’re raising your kids? Well, this morning, after my son took a big fall, and I pulled him onto my lap to comfort him, it really struck me that it won’t be much longer before he will simply be too big physically for me to do that – and perhaps the only reason I still can is because of all the time I spend in the gym.
And so, for the past few weeks, I’ve been busy shepherding us all through this period of change. And the metaphor that I’ve been relying on most to explain all of this change to myself, and to the kids: Silver Linings.
You see, a silver lining can be described as this:
n.A hopeful or comforting prospect in the midst of difficulty.
I want to teach my little ones, as much as I want to remind myself, that as we make our way through the difficult times in life, there will be a light at the end of the tunnel, that things will start to get better, and that it’s never too long before we can see the silver lining!
Of course, with the kids, I’ve also been relying on diversionary tactics when I find them getting a little to “stuck” in their emotions. And the best way to divert my kids attention, is to get them into the kitchen.
With the recent wave of hot weather, my daughter has exclaimed pretty much every afternoon “today would be a perfect day for a popsicle!”. And so . . . we made popsicles! Yes, I know, this is not revolutionary in any way. But the kids have discovered the joys of giant freezies and they’ve been exposed to ice cream trucks at end of the school year celebrations, which combined, make a traditional popsicle a hard sell in my house right now.
Ownership of the great popsicle project, however, equalled success in both of them thinking they were having a real treat . . .
Strawberry and Watermelon Popsicles
- 1 cup chopped strawberries, leaves and stems removed
- 1-2 cups cubed watermelon (about 1/8 of a whole watermelon
- 1/4 c plain yogurt (I used Kefir)
- 1 tsp of liquid organic honey (this is totally optional and totally not necessary)
- Throw all the ingredients into a blender and process until smooth
- Pour into popsicle molds and freeze (I got mine at Dollarama . . . )
- Enjoy on a day that is just “perfect for popsicles”